Monday 28 March 2016

A new week - am I ready?


And just like that the long Easter weekend is almost over and a new week awaits us. Am I ready for it .... Nope I don't think so haha. This week is going to be one of those crazy, busy, can't get my breath weeks. Apart from all the 'normal' stuff that needs to be done 'Poppet' is moving on Thursday. So, seeing as everyone will be at work this is going to be a 'girl' deal. Mind you, seeing as I have moved more times than I can actually remember (about 36 last count) it should be a breeze except for the fact that I'm not as young as I once was. So, Thursday it will be sleeves rolled up, back flexed, sturdy shoes and a healthy dose of energy.

As if I am not a sucker for punishment we have decided to 'add' to our family. We heard of a litter of kittens that were rescued and being fostered and have decided to adopt one. Now, that being said, we have a 6 yr old, extremely opinionated, spoilt cat who thinks that the house revolves around her 24/7. So I am expecting to be launched into a mini war zone by the end of the week. I am going to be using every bit of advice I've read to make this a trouble free zone, but on the inside I have my doubts. No doubt I will be haughtily ignored for a few days and highly unpopular to say the very least, but optimist that I am, it should all smooth out in time.

Speaking about optimism, that, my faith in God and a keen sense of humour is what has carried me this far on my winding road. I received a Facebook 'memory' reminder yesterday that I shared 5 years ago. We were travelling home after me spending the week with 'Poppet' who had undergone a 7 hour surgery after being diagnosed with Breast Cancer. This was her second cancer (the first being Thryoid - completely gone). She had very aggressive surgery and during that week, hubby was home due to work, I felt like I was on a roller coaster, never mind winding road. The emotions, fear, prayers, faith, tears, looking after Princess (grand daughter). It was a TOUGH week. When I look back and then look to the now I can only stand in awe of how far along the road we as a family have come. Poppet kicked cancer's butt and is now an even more beautiful, confident, successful woman with a gorgeous daughter.

It doesn't matter how dark the day is, or how far down the tunnel you feel you are, keep on believing for that miracle, trusting God, looking for the full glass, and find time to laugh even if it is through the tears. It is these craters and twists in the road that make us who we are - stronger, wiser, more compassionate, and richer in every way.

N.B. For future reference and to protect my family - Eldest son is 'Big Guy' Eldest Daughter is "Poppet" Second son is "Big Bear" Second daughter is ' Jelly Bean' Grand daughter is 'Princess'. Step daughter is 'Miss Muffett'. Daughter in law is 'Baby Bear'

4 comments:

Gerhard said...

A refreshing piece Sharon - Happy blogging :-)

My Life's Winding Roads said...

Thank you :)

Ali said...

And I'm in tears - can't believe poppets second diagnosis etc was 5 years ago! That's 5 years this August since I've seen you all! Too much has happened in that time...didn't know you were blogging but have loved reading this - makes me feel like you're close by. Looking forward to reading the next one :) xxx

My Life's Winding Roads said...

Thanks Ali. I know it seems ages ago and yet just days ago. We miss you lots. I'm so glad you are enjoying the Blog :) xxx