Monday, 30 October 2023

What a month

 Good morning to everyone wherever you are. Well ... What a month in just about every respect including  ending it off by winning the 2023 Rugby World Cup, well done to our Bokke, you are the best, it really came down to the wire , nail biting from start to finish.  As you may remember, we entered the month almost cut off from everything - that actually hasn't changed much.  We can get through to Kleinmond, our closest town with a stop / go at the bridge, which allows only one lane of vehicles through at a time.  From there we can get to Hermanus also with a stop / go at the turn off to Hermanus, which is actually a 3 way stop /go as it is a T junction and turning left is our only way to Cape Town via Sir Lowry's Pass. Despite being a national highway it is not a pleasant drive as well as being quite dangerous on the Pass, it also takes an extra thirty minutes. As a result ,  trips to Somerset West are now down to only the most necessary.  We are actually very blessed to be in the Western Cape because out of 154 roads which were closed we are now down to 37. In other Provinces in SA most of these roads would still be closed.  Our beloved Clarence Drive is being worked on from both sides as there were so many areas affected, there is hopeful talk of it being opened on a stop / go system possibly before the end of the year 🙏.   Our weather remains completely upside down with no two days being the same.

I had my reconstruction done on the 3rd and it is not quite the full stop I had hoped for; it is a comma as the Dr feels there should be one more next year some time.  Despite having really had no issues with the first reconstruction, this one knocked me flat and exacerbated a bad flare which is still plaguing me.  I actually made contact with the Anaesthetist to find out exactly what drugs she used, because the nausea was so bad and lasted well over two weeks. Never mind the pain and bruising, shucks.  Having said all  that I could not be happier with the results and am loving my somewhat flatter tummy 😁.  I am in no hurry for the next one, and after seeing my Oncologist last week I am now officially cancer free for 2 years and 12 days) I am now on a six monthly check up with her, whoop whoop.  It has been a very long road but one that has taught me a huge amount about myself, compassion and life.  For all who pray and support me, I thank you. I can't imagine having done it without your love.

Work wise things are going well, it was a bit quiet in the middle of the month so which worked out perfectly. Then last week someone called and asked if I can alter curtains. Not my favourite thing to do but I said yes and she duly dropped them off.  Oh my goodness 😳 those curtains tested every reserve I had and then some. Apart from a fairly complicated alteration they were 2.72 m long, made out of expensive block out fabric with another thick block out  lining.  There were some areas that I could not even get the material into my sewing machine (I did those by hand).  It took me the entire week where the dining room table looked like a tornado had struck.  I eventually finished them at 17.00 on Friday afternoon and she happily collected them on Saturday.  That one goes down in my history book 🤣.  Late Friday another client brought in a pile of clothing which needs repairing and small alterations and I was so excited to see what needs to be done. As for Dragon Drizzle the oils went onto the shelf in the Coffee Shop on about the 18th, I haven't been in to see what's happening there.  But I do know I am gong to have to rethink my labels.  Unless there is light behind the bottles the label gets lost completely.

Hubby has a steady flow of clocks and has just rebuilt one for one of our local charities, after being given just  a box of loose parts.  He certainly has  a talent for them.  On a different note I am still trying to get my head around the fact  that my precious little Princess leaves home next Sunday to fly up to Gauteng and prepare herself for Varsity next year.  What happened to the tiny bundle that captured my heart the minute she opened her eyes in the delivery room?  We are having a joint belated birthday and going away lunch for her and Poppet and Hubby this coming Saturday.  I am going to miss her beyond all words.😥😥 as is her Mommy.

On Saturday we went along to Stony Point, our penguin colony to watch the release of rehabilitated penguins. Jelly Bean and I have wanted to go for so long and always miss it.  So braving the cold wind we stood in place and waited. It is always so very soul refreshing to be able to just look at the ocean and not hear anything but the pounding if the waves and call of the gulls .. At the end it was well worth the wait when they released twelve penguins and we  watched them trying to orientate themselves and slowly, slowly approach the water. Eventually one brave guy jumped in and the rest followed almost as one.  We were on a complete high after that, a bucket list item  -  ✔️.  Yesterday we went to a craft market just up the road and it was actually really lovely, lots of unusual things, local crafts and some yummy ediblesI did not take Charlie as I had read that dogs were not allowed, I had to come home and apologise to him because there were two dogs  there 🤦🏻‍♀️ oops.

Well folks I think that about covers the past month without going into too many details hahaha.  Now the trot up to Christmas starts and I for one want to try and get as much done, as early as possible. I also want to send out a virtual hug to all of you that are battling with pressure, stress, depression, illness or sorrow.  Take a deep breath and just take life day by day, hour by hour and minute by minute where you need to.  If you find yourself waking up in the middle of the night in a panic about something, write it down and hand it over to God.   Keep a pen and paper by your bed.  That way you can let it go and deal with it in the morning with fresh eyes.

Stay safe and stay healthy folks.  Ciao Ciao.

Shipwreck from 1926 at Stony Point.


Penguin Release.







Monday, 2 October 2023

My Life's Winding Roads: And it rained and rained and rained

My Life's Winding Roads: And it rained and rained and rained: Good morning folks from a somewhat soggy village on the Cape Coast.  October has arrived and who knows what is in store for us. I am so grat...

Sunday, 1 October 2023

And it rained and rained and rained

Good morning folks from a somewhat soggy village on the Cape Coast.  October has arrived and who knows what is in store for us. I am so grateful that with God as our  anchor and refuge we do not have to fear the future.

Living down here has certainly given me a deeper respect for the laws of nature.  When the wind is blowing gale force and the rain unceasing it can be somewhat daunting. Over the last three weeks we have had two bouts of extremely bad weather.  The second coming last weekend and causing the most damage to an already water logged area.  Betty's Bay hasn't actually completely dried out after the storms in June and July so it is only to be expected that we were in for a heap of trouble.  It started on the Friday,  and unusually for the Cape, it just kept coming down.  Poppet came through on the Saturday morning - after having such a strong wind where she  lives that it blew their  two surfboards flat and right  across the tiny balcony in the middle of the night.  Fortunately knowing how vulnerable our roads are, she left early enough to get through on Clarence Drive, our coastal road.   During Saturday night a really large portion of Clarence Drive literally just collapsed and washed away.  Sunday morning dawned and we found out that our three villages were completely cut off from everywhere.  The only other road out is via Kleinmond which includes crossing the Palmiet bridge, not something we ever give a second thought to.  Well ... not anymore. Along with the roads went our electricity which remained off in our road for the entire day. Some homes were without power for much longer.  Within hours all bread and milk was sold out and then following them the only petrol station sold out as well.  I'm not sure why everyone stocked up on fuel when there was nowhere to go 🤷🏻‍♀️.  Our home and property were undamaged as we are a little higher, we did however develop a couple of really prolific leaks.  In typical Sharon style I put a towel under the leak, totally underestimating it and after twelve hours only thought to add two bowls (3 litre capacity each) 🤦🏻‍♀️.  By Sunday they were both half full.  The deck also sprung a couple of leaks but I have learnt that this is part for the course living down here.  Eventually by Wednesday the Palmiet bridge had been partially opened to traffic with a stop/go in place.  Clarence Drive remains closed indefinitely.  Sadly large areas were largely without water completely due to damage to dams and infrastructure etc.  The entire town of Hermanus was completely out of water as was Kleinmond. Some areas have been restored but not all to  my knowledge.  Yesterday the main road linking us to Hermanus and Cape Town had to be partially closed due to collapse.   I will say that being totally cut off and knowing that you cannot go anywhere is quite a strange feeling.  In Betty's we had a little baby born during one evening, a child was helicoptered out after being knocked off his bike. There were numerous other medical emergencies which were dealt with by our local emergency medical teams.  The biggest thing was how everyone stepped up to help each other.  People in Kleinmond offered help and did shopping, then met people on our side and exchanged goods by walking over the bridge. Chemist personal delivered medication to the bridge where they were met by the recipients.  The manager of the Spar was taking people, four at a time, in his own vehicle, to his store to shop and then returning them to the bridge to walk across.  The tough part of the walking across is that parking on our side was a kilometre from the bridge, uphill.  It is a very special place to live.

Apart from the weather which was somewhat consuming, it was a busy month.  Hubby has made an incredible recovery and three weeks post op was given the green light to continue normal life, and respecting his knee.  He had ditched his crutches within ten days of having the surgery.  
Tomorrow I am booked in for what I pray will be my last surgery, the second part of my reconstruction.  It will be five days short of two years since my bilateral mastectomy and for me is a personal goal, or a full stop if you will, to say I am finished and healthy.

As for my little foray into business - Overstrand Mend and Patch, I have been more surprised than anyone else that I have actually had a fair amount of work.  On Thursday I had a lady ask if I could alter/ make more comfortable three dresses for her little daughter, before Friday evening.  Each 'job' I have had come in has been a challenge which I have really enjoyed conquering.  I have to think out of the box some of the time, but it seems to be working and my customers appear to be happy.  I also have an order with our very popular local Coffee Shop / Deli, for my Chilli Oil - Dragon Drizzle.  Delivery for the middle of the month, so will fit around my recovery.

In coming to a close I want to wish Poppet and Hubby a Happy Birthday for Tuesday and Thursday respectively.  Enjoy both of you and I pray each of you has a special day.

Folks that's enough for now, the weather really was the pivotal point of the entire month.  Despite all the issues for our area some other places were worse off and the list of road closures remains as long as an arm.  To all of you out there stay safe and stay healthy.   Until next month Ciao Ciao.

Clarence Drive



R43 Hermanus to Cape Town 

Franschoek mud slides

None of the above pictures are my own 

Monday, 4 September 2023

My Life's Winding Roads: Wait... What ??

My Life's Winding Roads: Wait... What ??: Hi folks, I can't even say good morning because noon has come and gone.     Is it just me or is anyone else feeling like they are on a t...

Wait... What ??

Hi folks, I can't even say good morning because noon has come and gone.   Is it just me or is anyone else feeling like they are on a treadmill and not quite keeping up?  Life seems to be getting busier and faster by the day. Wow !

Ok enough about me and why I am late with this months Blog, sorry all.  Even the weather is a tad confused I think. It is supposed to be Spring and is in some parts of the country, but the Western Cape is receiving mixed messages.  Warm(ish) for a couple of days and then wham cold front.  There is a saying down here that when you leave home be prepared for all four seasons before you get home. So true, I have so many locations tabbed on my weather app, because the temperature can be 15 c cooler or hotter not even 50 km away.  You've got to stay prepared 😄. 

August, if that is what just blew past, was one busy month.   Sadly,  the Bears had to say goodbye to their precious, eldest fur child, Gandalf.  G was diagnosed as a diabetic some years ago and had been sick for some time.  Despite doing absolutely everything humanly possible, with the best Vets, they had to make the incredibly heart breaking decision to  let him go over the rainbow bridge. It is so difficult to lose a member of the family and has been enormously difficult for them both. Galdalf you were a true legend boy. As some of you may know from previous years we as a family are in what I call birthday season. We had three in the last week of August and more coming up.  It was myself, BigBear and BabyBear and we were all blessed to be able to meet together on the Sunday in Stellenbosch (for a change of scenery) and had a super lunch at a quaint,  Italian Restaurant and then wandered around a bit and finished off with the most mouth watering, decadent Italian ice creams.  This was quite an event actually as Hubby had, had his knee replacement on the Tuesday just 5 days before.

The surgery went exceptionally well, he was discharged the following day and his recovery has been nothing but amazing. I am so surprised and yet not because it is exactly what we prayed for.  He has had no pain in the knee itself, only muscular aches and tightness.  Still walking with crutches,  more for balance than actually taking the weight off his leg. I walked in on him last week and he was walking holding both crutches in one hard .... as he saw my face he said "I've got both crutches "  hmmm yeah they should be in each hand carrying you.🤦🏻‍♀️   He has done so well and we are super proud of him.  The watches and clocks proved too much of a temptation for him and he goes to his garage almost every day and spends time working on them.

I conquered my overlocker, yaaay,  as a result and thanks to some encouragement from the family I have started a small business doing Mending and Patching.   Right now I am feeling a little overwhelmed as I had my first non-family client here earlier and she has left about 10 pairs of kids and adults jeans and pants that all need mending and fixing. I am probably more surprised than anyone but there you have it, people need someone who can just repair the tears and rips and give the item a few more years, hopefully. Poppet has been more than generous in offering to be a guinea pig and has endowed me with a whole heap of clothing that needs re-making, not even repairing 😜🤦🏻‍♀️.

My Calcium Drip last month knocked me for a bit of a loop, painwise which added to the fibro flare and my right arm was incredibly sore, it was a tough month. I have been going for Physio which certainly helps.  Having stepped in for the Hubster has also been a challenge, but one that is a delight to see him recovering so well, is so worth it.  I am not in the best place physically but take each day as it comes. God has been and is SO good to us, without His strength I would not be able to cope.

For some of the funnier moments of the month, most were vehicle related.  On the day of Hubby's surgery, it poured the entire day and JB and I were in and out the whole day. Going in he had told me to get some Automatic Steering Fluid and the garage would put it in.  Well garages don't sell it, so I went to the spares shop.  Such a nice guy who served me and then, in the rain, showed me where to put it and actually did it for me.  On my way to the hospital later the car was jerking and spluttering which was concerning to sat the least.   I mentioned it to Hubby, and in his doped up state he suggested I go to the garage and get them to blow air over the ECU 🙄, in case it got wet during the pouring of steering fluid, which it  did.  So ... off to the garage and they obligingly blew the air which did the trick.  Score 1 for drugged Hubby and 0 for Citroen.  This past Friday I took JB through to the Bears as she was house sitting there for the weekend.  This time we used her car.  All good until we got close to Cape Town when there was an engine alert sound but no signs or visuals.  I took care and eventually the sound became consistent but still no clue as  to what it was.  I could not explain to Mr Hubby because he was without a phone ( he dropped his and shattered the screen. I had just dropped of shattered phone for screen replacement).   The car appeared to be behaving  itself, except for the flashing red line and the beep.  On the return as I neared Somerset West I noticed steam coming out of engine, yet the temperature was not going up, my stress levels were though, rampantly.  I stopped at the first available garage and low and behold the water tank was empty which we refilles - gauge still normal.  Being the resourceful woman I am, I bought a 2 L water just in case I needed to refill the tank, this however was not needed. Apart from the red line there was no further issue and on arriving home Mr Mechanic hobbled around and cleared the computer fault. When he checked the water earlier he had closed the lid too tightly and pressure was building up and there must be a sneaky leak somewhere 🤔 🤷🏻‍♀️.  The moral of both stories is I now know exactly where water, oil, steering fluid etc go on both Citroëns.   Yesterday I took  his car to CT to fetch JB and oh I did so enjoy the smartness and smoothness hehe.  No issues either what a pleasure.

In closing folks I promised I would post pics of the plates Jelly Bean and decorated in our Sip and Paint class.  They came out tons better than we ever imagined whoop whoop.  We will be doing that again for sure.

Have a wonderful week all, wherever you are and please just remember a bad hour doesn't make a bad day, a bad day doesn't make a bad week and so on.  When the fan of life gets 'dirty' do what you can, step back, breathe and move forward.  If we don't do that we will forever be tossed around by the catastrophes and bad moments. Ciao Ciao

R.I.P. Gandalf the Great, 



Mine 


Jelly Bean's



Monday, 7 August 2023

My Life's Winding Roads: It was a long month

My Life's Winding Roads: It was a long month: Greetings everyone on this lovely mild late winters day.  July felt like it was a very long month in all ways; good grief, so much packed in...

It was a long month

Greetings everyone on this lovely mild late winters day.  July felt like it was a very long month in all ways; good grief, so much packed into one month that I am not quite sure where to start.  Weather wise July was COLD, there is no other way to put it.  We thoroughly enjoyed having our fire going most days and every evening as well. It almost feels like the weather knows the date because the moment August rolled over on the calendar it picked up a few degrees and has become a little bit milder.  I know I am definitely nowhere ready for summer 🌞.  

One of the highlights of my month was the most wonderful day out at a wine farm with the Bears.  They decided that it was Mom treat day and took both myself and BabyBear's Mom for the most splendid lunch and catch up time.  We spent the whole afternoon eating, chatting, laughing and then dozens of photographs were taken.  I came home on a high of love, feeling very special.  Thank you both again for such a special memory.

Another highlight was I just happened to see on Facebook a gentleman who recovers old Bibles.  My favourite Bible goes back to the 80's and is irreplaceable in terms of my notes, references etc. After having a chat with him I very carefully packed it and couriered it to him, here in the Cape.  Three weeks later I got it back, looking like new.  The original cover was so worn and even  torn in places and he has literally breathed new life into it, we are good to go for another 40 years.  If anyone wants his number please send me a message and I will be more than happy to pass his details on.

There have been lots of quick 'pop in' visits with the girls on various trips into town,  and in between her trips up to Pretoria we even have Princess come and stay for a few days which was very special.  I know that I am trying to squeeze in as much time with her before she moves as possible.    On her last trip up country she caught  flu which the Dr initially thought was swine flu, but turned out to be the RSV virus.bthank goodness there is no such thing as distance when praying.   She was really ill to the point that her return flight home was delayed by a few days.  Shame it was a rough month health wise for her  but thankfully she is now looking and feeling tons better.  

For those of you who are in South Africa you most probably know about the Taxi strikes we have had during the last week in the Western Cape.  Unfortunately Poppet had to go into the office last Thursday and the strike started sometime during the morning.  She left her office at 2pm and it took her until 6.45 pm to get home.  A journey of normally 40 minutes.  Every single road in and out of Cape Town was grid locked, the highways were at a standstill as the taxi drivers filled all lanes and then switched off their vehicles. So much stress and heartache. The roads are still being closely monitored by the authorities and not quite back to normal. More opportunities to pray unceasingly.

The culmination of all my tests and procedures was a visit to the Oncologist who is delighted with my results and has officially given me the all clear.  Apart from having the bi-annual calcium drip tomorrow I am done.  Hubby saw the Orthopaedic specialist and is booked to have a total left knee replacement on the 22nd of this month. We've known it was on the cards at some point which it turns out is now.  He has the same surgeon who operated on Princess and is excellent so we are praying for and claiming a successful operation with a trouble free, quick recovery. 🙏  There is still one final reconstruction operation for me, which I will schedule more towards the end of the year when Hubby is up and about.  This op for me is important in that I see it as the final, I'm done and dusted, door closed.

Miss Muffet and the family just came back from a summer holiday to Turkey and as the boys are on summer break and at a Camp for a week she and Mr Muffet jetted off to Ibiza for four days on their own - I'm not jealous at all 😉

Last Wednesday evening Jelly Bean and I whisked ourselves off to Kleinmond to do a Sip and Paint Pottery Class.  Oh what fun it was.  There were about eleven people and each person chooses an item to paint, chooses their paint colours and gets busy.  They provide wine and we had the most delicious sourdough breads with it.  Lots of chirping amongst everyone, lovely music and a general, all round evening of fun.  When we get our items back from being fired etc I will post a picture.  I must say that since CoVid there are now so many things to do in our area and surrounds, that we really do have the privilege of being able to choose whatever we want.  JB and I will definitely go back to the Sip and Paint evenings.

On the hobby side of my life I am 3/4's of the way through my biggest Diamond Dot Painting to date.  It is a custom picture I ordered of the sea and I cannot wait to see the finished canvas.  I was given another DDP on the Mom's day and have called that one the first of my 'stash'.  During a chat with the girls one day Poppet asked why I don't buy an overlocker and get to do more sewing.  It is something I have always wanted but never got around to making it a priority.  I know absolutely nothing about them and so phoned a friend who I knew years ago had one.  Well ... Within minutes she told me she hasn't used hers in years and promptly blessed me with it even though I wanted to pay for it.  I was speechless and on Friday my Overlocker arrived via courier, wrapped and stickered up with Fragile / this way up covering every centimetre of the box.  On Saturday I sat down with a YouTube tutorial and successfully threaded everything correctly, to my astonishment 😀.  Hubby then took it to the garage to give it a quick service but somehow broke the two needles.  I have now sat the entire weekend just itching to try sewing something / anything and looking at it.  First thing today is new needles and then the all important test......so watch this space folks 👀.  

On that newsy note I am going to end off (I need to get to the Haberdashery shop hehe) .  The last few weeks have been so busy that I have had a bit of a battle physically, in keeping up.  Apart from having the drip tomorrow my plans for the next week or so are all centred on catching up with myself and getting out of the nasty flare I've been in so that when Hubby has his operation I am ready to pick up his reins during his recovery💪🏻.  Folks thank you for your constant support, I wish you all a wonderful week and wherever you are please stay safe and stay healthy. Ciao Ciao

My gorgeous recovered Bible


Charlie back from the groomer sporting the latest Teddy Bear cut